Although I do not agree with everything of John Piper’s teaching, especially concerning his support of Mark Driscoll, I do benefit from his Bible Study as long as I’m willing to check it according to the Scriptures.
Piper’s view here on divorce is rather strict and not similar to the typical church’s view on divorce. Even Piper’s own church did not accept his view on divorce when they wrote out the church’s position on divorce.
Divorce & Remarriage: A Position Paper by John Piper
This is just a very condensed version of the paper’s notes. Each point is explained in detail here.
It seems that the most efficient way to approach the issue is to simply give a list of reasons, based on Biblical texts, why I believe that the New Testament prohibits all remarriage except where a spouse has died. So what follows is a list of such arguments.
Eleven Reasons Why I Believe All Remarriage After Divorce Is Prohibited While Both Spouses Are Alive
1. Luke 16:18 calls all remarriage after divorce adultery.
2. Mark 10:11-12 call all remarriage after divorce adultery whether it is the husband or the wife who does the divorcing.
3. Mark 10:2-9 and Matthew 19:3-8 teach that Jesus rejected the Pharisees’ justification of divorce from Deuteronomy 24:1 and reasserted the purpose of God in creation that no human being separate what God has joined together.
4. Matthew 5:32 does not teach that remarriage is lawful in some cases. Rather it reaffirms that marriage after divorce is adultery, even for those who have been divorced innocently, and that a man who divorces his wife is guilty of the adultery of her second marriage unless she had already become an adulteress before the divorce.
5. 1 Corinthians 7:10-11 teaches that divorce is wrong but that if it is inevitable the person who divorces should not remarry.
6. 1 Corinthians 7:39 and Romans 7:1-3 teach that remarriage is legitimate only after the death of a spouse.
7. Matthew 19:10-12 teaches that special Christian grace is given by God to Christ’s disciples to sustain them in singleness when they renounce remarriage according to the law of Christ.
8. Deuteronomy 24:1-4 does not legislate grounds for divorce but teaches that the “one-flesh” relationship established by marriage is not obliterated by divorce or even by remarriage.
9. 1 Corinthians 7:15 does not mean that when a Christian is deserted by an unbelieving spouse he or she is free to remarry. It means that the Christian is not bound to fight in order to preserve togetherness. Separation is permissible if the unbelieving partner insists on it.
10. 1 Corinthians 7:27-28 does not teach the right of divorced persons to remarry. It teaches that betrothed virgins should seriously consider the life of singleness, but do not sin if they marry.
11. The exception clause of Matthew 19:9 need not imply that divorce on account of adultery frees a person to be remarried. All the weight of the New Testament evidence given in the preceding ten points is against this view, and there are several ways to make good sense out of this verse so that it does not conflict with the broad teaching of the New Testament that remarriage after divorce is prohibited.
By John Piper. © Desiring God. Website: desiringGod.org
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I have been married twice. I was gulity of adultry in my first marriage, and when my husband divorced me I ran amuck in sexual and other sinful actions trying to find life and all I found was pain. My second husband divorced me because I became a Christian . I was not in agreement to the divorce, but my commitment to my newfound Christian life has held me at bay to remarriage. I grew up catholic and there was adultry and divorces in my parents, aunts, uncles and it was seen as acceptable. I knew it was wrong, but didn’t know how wrong. I try hard to live right now. I commited my life to Christ when I was in my 50’s.
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Berean Wife Reply:
January 8th, 2010 at 9:48 pm
Anonymous,
I’m so sorry that you have so much hardship from the sin in your life and also in the life of others. Be sure to read Divorce and Forgiveness. You might find it helpful. Just as the Lord forgives us our sins we are to forgive each other.
I’m glad that you have committed your life to Christ even at 50. I pray that you continue to study the Bible and to grow in your faith.
Berean Wife
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