Mary has suggested that maybe we have different definitions for Sodom. I agree that we must have correct definitions for words in order to have a serious discussion. But our definitions don’t really matter. We must see what Scripture says about Sodom and what Sodom is referring to throughout the Scripture. You might be surprised how many times Sodom is referred to beyond the account about Lot.
Terry mentioned one occurrence in Ezekiel 16:49-50 in her comments about Sodom.
Here is one other reference to Sodom which might surprise you:
Revelation 11:7-8 (ESV)
7 And when they have finished their testimony, the beast that rises from the bottomless pit will make war on them and conquer them and kill them,
8 and their dead bodies will lie in the street of the great city that symbolically is called Sodom and Egypt, where their Lord was crucified.
So after you have a chance to find references to Sodom in the Bible; where is Sodom and what is Sodom’s problem based purely on the Scripture?